Stability

Zach and I had a talk tonight, I know surprising me speaking with my good friends again ha ha. We had a talk about stability...really how vague that word really is today. What is stability to you? I mean for so many girls my age, take into consideration I am from Utah, that means being married off and making a family at age 18. At certain point here people start wondering if you're even normal cus you aren't married. Lets be realistic unless you are fully conformed in the religion you wind up married, divorced, and parenting children from the situation. I myself, was almost married by the age of twenty and although I am only about to be twenty-two, I have grown so much as a person and stability to me has such a different meaning. For me it's about being stable within yourself, taking in anything you possibly can to better yourself and if someone is there to embrace life with you fantastic! If not than you are still comfortable and "stable" in your own skin. My friends have been the biggest support I could ever ask for in this, my family also helps, but no matter the opinion or feelings towards the situation my friends will back my every decision and be there to pick up what ever pieces may fall apart. I think 2009 was the by far most struggling year for us so many relationships and splits that have been the most detrimental we've yet to face. I am sure as the years pass there will only be more. Mike is growing to be more outgoing along with my dear Gina, where as Zach and I finally are seeping into ourselves to find what it is we need to be content. I don't understand the people who look into other for stability I think at one point I did, but with everything that has occurred in the last year I have fallen into a new understanding that, you have to truly make you happy and successful and work people and their life into yours and vice versa. Stability isn't money, where you live, or how much you have it and neither is happiness. They are all linked together as one....including love. Love yourself, you can give love. Everything you desire is within yourself and those are around you are just there better your world. If they aren't really think through why they don't. As the saying goes,"Easier said than done..", but I don't think anything is truely impossible..